Supersoulness, Soulness, Humaness, Genderness

Perception of a human being is often concocted and suited to our lesser needs. Thus relationship with other human beings is restricted to that lower base. This makes us close ourselves to possibilities of life in higher bases of humaness which is very much potentially available right under our nose as an opportunity. Better to see a person as he or she is and not as he or she has mapped them. Supersoulness- Soulness is the largest base. It is the need of the soul that is pervertedly manifest as life itself. All the souls’ needs are met by surrendered relationship with the eternal friend - Supersoul. And when that relationship is active all other secondary needs at humaness, genderness sub-base will wither away. Next largest base or playfield is humaness. Here we are alone and hence we have needs of relationship with other humans. We need to earn security, food, knowledge, power, love etc. Now genderness is one of minor sub- bases within humanness. Thus you see that genderness or humaness is not end all and is all of life as we pervertedly map its relative value. Depending on how we realistically value genderness, our perception of oppoasite sex can range from healthy to pervert to obsessive type. Reality will only respond to what 'is there'. Not to what you imagine being there.

To see genderness primarily when you see a person is a perverted perception. That is why you are asked to see every woman as your mother. Because large dimension of humaness is the base for seeing mother and it is in our childhood experience. The smaller genderness is rightly placed. The only additional reality is that as adults you know more about sexual arousal and total bodily pleasure of one type.

Somewhere as we grew up, we started pasting inflated high value to the discovery of this pleasure which society has restricted the supply and started seeing life as centered around sexual love, family, society etc., all around this. Principle of demand and supply determines value.  That is trap. We start missing out our so many many layers of needs of larger bases of humaness and soulness by pursuing the pleasures of genderness base of material existence.